As my daddy used to say: You are not a dollar bill, not everyone's gonna like you.
This is exactly what it's about. The unconditional love is hard to find these days. I was lucky to be born into a family where everyone just looooooove each other because of the blood we share. But already in school I learned that you can't make people love you just for being you. There will be 10, 20, 100 or even more people who are not gonna like you, your ideas, you way of life. People will judge you, attack you and hate you, telling you that you can't, you're not good enough, that your dreams suck and that your ideas are worth nothing. These "lovely" haters are everywhere. In every country, every city, at every school and every office...
It's not gonna be easy to continue having faith in yourself, when others don't have it. Boyfriends will put you down, people you used to share your life with might turn their backs on you and as years go by you get more and more sure about óne thing. Family is all you've got!
Of course there are friends who will stand by your side and support you no matter what, but in life, anything can happen, so the only people who will love you not expecting anything in return is your family. No matter how mean you are towards them, how much you shout at them and get mad 'cause they always worry too much, they will still be there for you when everything else fails or falls apart. You can always go home. They will be there to welcome you back, no matter how ashamed you are of your situation, they will not judge you. They will give you all the space you need so you can heal your wounds and start over, go out there again and face the world when you are ready.
This is why I love my family......
This is exactly what it's about. The unconditional love is hard to find these days. I was lucky to be born into a family where everyone just looooooove each other because of the blood we share. But already in school I learned that you can't make people love you just for being you. There will be 10, 20, 100 or even more people who are not gonna like you, your ideas, you way of life. People will judge you, attack you and hate you, telling you that you can't, you're not good enough, that your dreams suck and that your ideas are worth nothing. These "lovely" haters are everywhere. In every country, every city, at every school and every office...
It's not gonna be easy to continue having faith in yourself, when others don't have it. Boyfriends will put you down, people you used to share your life with might turn their backs on you and as years go by you get more and more sure about óne thing. Family is all you've got!
Of course there are friends who will stand by your side and support you no matter what, but in life, anything can happen, so the only people who will love you not expecting anything in return is your family. No matter how mean you are towards them, how much you shout at them and get mad 'cause they always worry too much, they will still be there for you when everything else fails or falls apart. You can always go home. They will be there to welcome you back, no matter how ashamed you are of your situation, they will not judge you. They will give you all the space you need so you can heal your wounds and start over, go out there again and face the world when you are ready.
This is why I love my family......
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